What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
Last Updated: 16.06.2025 15:46
3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
Lithium-Rich Mineral Found In Only One Place On Earth Has Its Recipe Finally Revealed - IFLScience
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
Why does a straight man like anal penetration?
How old are you? Male or Female?
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
Amino Acid Supplements Are Trending For A Reason. Here’s Why Dietitians Are Divided. - AOL.com
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
What is your wildest experience in Bangalore that you haven’t told anyone?
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
What is it like to date a women 20 years younger than yourself?
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
Why don't we hear our own snoring?
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
Any that are a turn off?
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
Please share Did you stop?
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
Take the short quiz here @ Discover Your Love Language® - The 5 Love Languages®
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
Any that are a turn off?
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
What is your favorite position? Why?
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
*** Questions About Me ***
85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
Family Relation Age Play
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
Would you read them together?
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
Do you think this brought you closer together?
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
29- How superstitious are you?
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
If yes, what?
The Ice Breaker Questions
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?
52~ What are your hobbies?
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
Nothing too Serious
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
If you win, what will you make them do?
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
39~ What are your love languages?
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
Have you ever? Care to Share?
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
62~ Have you used adult toys?
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
*** Random Questions ***
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?